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A Broken Heart Is Not the Same As A Closed Heart
I was at a meeting last week where adoption workers and supervisors from different counties got together in an attempt to find families for kids who are in particular need – kids who have no one personal in their lives at … Continue reading
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Catch-22
Okay, I’m back. Or more accurately, I think I’m back. It’s been six months since I made a blog entry and I can’t believe that it has been that long. Where have I been? Busy, of course. What else could … Continue reading
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The Anti-Power of Wimpiness
Note: As I quoted Rod Stewart’s line in his song, “Mandolin Wind,” in another context: “Oh, the snow fell without a break….Through the coldest winter in almost fourteen years…” Having a school kid at home, when school is cancelled on … Continue reading
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Forget The Blah Blah: It Was Eight Degrees
Ordinarily, I am in bed by 10, as I have to get up at 5:30 because my grandson has to leave for the bus at 6:20. But last night, watching a recording of the “Soul Train Awards” which were honoring … Continue reading
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Arrogance
I was having a conversation the other day with a man who has a long history in twelve step programs. He told me that as a result of that history, he lives in his “own little bubble.” I started to … Continue reading
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Not Getting It
Over the past few months, I have come to the realization that I still don’t get it when it comes to our kids who end up in foster care, especially institutions. The depth of their fear and the horror of … Continue reading
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Context: The Line Between Human and Bureaucrat
At one of our Family Focus training sessions earlier in the year, I found myself unsure about whether I was repeating an idea that I might have already spoken on many weeks earlier (the trainings are a long fourteen straight … Continue reading
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I’m Back – Still Again
After going from December 12, 2012 until March 6, 2013 without doing a posting, I decided that the only way the blog could get its due was if I posted at the same time each week. I chose Sunday mornings, … Continue reading
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Ohana
One of our FFAS kids, now a young adult, wrote a poem to open up the evening on Friday night. His name is David Whitaker. His words just floored me, when I finally got a chance to concentrate on them. … Continue reading
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Bob Dylan Comes Through Again
[Yeah, yeah, I didn’t post last week. I apologize to all who were expecting the once a week posting. So today, I’ll post two, okay?] My boss at Family Focus, Maris Blechner, an agency founder and the sole executive director … Continue reading
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